Friday, April 20, 2007

GOOD AND BAD

As a Bruneian woman, I have had to endure getting compared to GOOD girls on a regular basis.....


and no matter how we try there is always the underlying tone of condescension.... How a GOOD girl acts, how she will wear a tudong, how she will be covered up..... BUT i think its time for us Bruneians to finally see the truth that you should never judge anyone by their cover......




I am not trying to say that all chicks that r covered up are not good, please dont get me wrong, BUT i have met some ppl along the way that never cease to surprise me.... That no matter how 'AYU' or baik USULNYA...... rupa2nya..... its all an act......




HEY, this is only just WOMEN, even the MEN here.....

They act like we have to prove that we are worthy for them, that the woman must be perfect.... RELIGIOUS, pure and clean history, kalau bulih the less the history the better....

Has anyone ever really looked at what makes a happy marriage, relationship, whatever.... How come we never look at, PERSONALITY, COMPASSION and for me most importantly INTEGRITY....... Lets start looking on the inside of people and stop deciding before they even open their mouths that we dont like them.....


So how about we do this…… You might think that Im the …….. GASP…….



THE DEVIL



And I am a BAD GIRL


But at least im honest, what you SEE is what you GET. ALL I NEED TO SAY NOW, IS FOR THOSE OUT THERE WHO FEEL IM BEING HARSH, THEN UVE NEVER BEEN WHERE IVE BEEN, I SPEAK FROM MY EXPERIENCE AND MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY SO UZ CAN ALL JUST....................









3 comments:

Anonymous said...

i love u i love u i love u..
hehehe i love u for the nasty bitch that u r.. for the stylish sexy devil with killer heels!! i love u for all the sharp comments n cruel words that are a fact real and snaps me back to reality!! HUGS! may all of us bitches get those bad boys with good hearts.. n not be deceived by the good boys with the black hearts! hahaha

Anonymous said...

boob hug!!!!

awak berkata benar wahai Puteri Ding.

and strictly B, right on!

i want me some...eh, one of those bad boys too...let's go bad boy hunting.

Anonymous said...

OMG i sooo agree with u... most of the tudong girls i know(not all of them of course) act so alim/innocent it's pissing me off. they sleep with their bfs and get away with it. and theyre so judgemental as if the tudong they wear makes them perfect. konon perempuan melayu terakhir lah. woahh mental aku ah hehehe

and wats up with malay guys who only like tudong girls? is it some kind of fetish or something?