normality

Yesterday someone asked me how the wedding was,and i replied truthfully, its was

WONDERFUL, BEAUTIFUL, IM GLAD ITS OVER, IM SAD WE'RE DONE, HAPPY, FUN, FRUSTRATING, BAGI MARAH, SASAK, SIOK, NGALIH, EXCITING.....

but basically we all felt those emotions, from being really tired and irritable to crying tears of joy. I guess all weddings are like this.

You truly gain so much from weddings, the family got close again, we joked argued, smiled, fought, gossiped bout each other behind their backs, loved, hated all togeder-geder you know.

But it also reminded me how beautiful our culture truly is, from ami ali carrying jenny to the pelamin, to nini uncu throwing 'beras kuning' before allowing ridha to enter the house.

I recently discovered that the HADRAH boys, one from the girls side one from the boys, they meet upon the day of the bersanding. and what happens is the hadrah from the boys side start playing first, as soon as they do that the ones from the girl's side will play a different song.then whoever loses the beat first LOSES.... Thats what i would call a BATTLE!!!!! We the original 8MILE.... hahaha